But I drove, proudly.
I’m here as an exercise in futility, an attempt to inoculate myself against memories of evil in quarter-ounce doses. The dose makes the poison, right? That’s the saying.
What if Mom had only been stung once?
What if I’d been stung before and we’d known about my allergy?
What if. That’s what I want on my grave.
What if.
I don’t want to put Amanda through a life of what if. Our fight that day, two months ago, at the wedding fittings wasn’t about fear. Not the kind of fear everyone thinks.
It was about love.
The kind of love so strong you’ll push it aside for the sake of preserving the other.
A chipmunk chatters at me as it leaps over a cluster of rocks, pausing to stand on hind legs and stare. Deeming me too inconsequential for more of its precious time, it skitters off into the woods, the rustling of leaves my only way to track it. Concentrating on minutiae like that is easier than thinking about the fact that I tried. I tried to push Amanda away, and I tried to save her from all the what ifs that come in the baggage I carry with me.
The god-damned ocean liner I pull through life via a yoke around my neck.
But I failed to account for an important variable.
Turns out, she loves me enough to push back. To stay. To accept the what ifs as part of the equation that says if—and only if—love can be so profound that a mother would sacrifice herself for her son, then maybe he should find someone to love that much.
To pass on the legacy.
To live out my mother’s greatest wish.
That I live.
“What am I supposed to do, Mom?” I say, as if she can hear me. As if she’s here, right now, with that intense look of listening that you only got out of her when you changed the timbre of your voice to cut through the busyness of being James McCormick’s wife. Mom did that. Stopped everything for us when we needed her most.
Nothing else was more important.
This is the part where I stop at that damned spot by the bridge and exorcise my demons. Talk to Mom and tell her how great Amanda is and how I wish she were alive to know her. That’s all a given. I don’t do that.
Instead, I pick up a handful of rocks and start throwing them, one by one, in rhythm to slow, deep breaths.
This is where I should have died.
This is where I didn’t die.
And this is where a single wasp could kill me.
“Fuck wasps,” I whisper, using Vince’s mantra. “Fuck wasps.” I bend down and pull out the hem of my shirt, turning it into a holding place for more rocks, mindless and stupid, just a guy gathering rocks to throw in the water.
And then I throw.
Each stretch of my arm takes about ten seconds, and as I calculate the value of my time spent collecting and throwing rocks, I say, Vince’s mantra over and over.
Vince is right.
It’s surprisingly cathartic.
Until a little voice behind me chimes in and echoes me.
“Fuck wasps. Auntie Shannon, what does ‘fuck wasps’ mean?”
I whip around, dropping the end of my shirt, the rocks spilling down my shins, the plunk plunk plunk of a hundred stones the backdrop for a wholly unexpected sight.
Shannon and her nephews, Jeffrey and Tyler.
“Why do you want to fuck wasps?” Jeffrey asks.
“Jeffrey!” Shannon scolds him. “Don’t say that word.”
“What word? ‘Wasps’? What’s wrong with the word ‘wasps’?”
“Jeffrey,” she says in a low voice of warning.
Tyler peers up at me, shielding his eyes from the blazing sun. “How do you fuck a wasp?”
“Very carefully,” Jeffrey whispers, laughing at his own joke.
Tyler doesn’t get it.
He damn well shouldn’t. The kid’s what—seven? Eight?
“You say that word again and no ice cream,” Shannon threatens.
Jeffrey’s smart. He shuts up instantly.
“Andrew?’ Shannon asks, her tone changing. “What are you doing here?”
“Reliving old times.”
She frowns, then beneath her furrowed brow, her eyes fly open. Taking in the bridge, the water, the soccer fields far off in the distance, she morphs, the realization of where we are sinking in layer by layer.
“Here?” she gasps, then shakes her head very slowly. “I guess I always knew, but didn’t think about it when I brought the boys here.”
I shrug. My ability to speak is rapidly fading.
“Is Amanda with you?”
I shake my head.
“We’re here because of Tyler’s soccer game.” The soft melody of an ice cream truck grows louder in the distance.
I look down. The kid’s wearing shin guards and tall soccer socks, with a sports team shirt for a team sponsored by a local plumbing company. Team colors are the same as mine from thirteen years ago, green and white.
My stomach feels like it’s been mowed.
By a flamethrower.
I reach in my back pocket and pull out my wallet, peeling off a twenty. “Here,” I say, handing it to Jeffrey. “You and Tyler go get yourselves some ice cream.”
He takes the bill but waits, giving Shannon a look of deference that I would find admirable if I weren’t half out of my mind right now.
“Can we?”
Her smile is shaky, body language tight and on guard. She can tell I’m upset and she’s frantically trying to read the situation. Meanwhile, every inch of my skin is on fire and I’m trapped in tenth grade.
“Sure. Just stay close to Tyler.”
The boys run off with hoots and shouts of “thanks!”
“What is wrong?” Shannon’s on me in under a second, her face twisted with fear. Small, breathy gasps come out of her. Fresh-faced, no make-up, and with her hair in a messy ponytail, she looks ten years younger, especially in a softball shirt and yoga pants.